Studying abroad can feel like navigating a new culture, learning a new language, and encountering unfamiliar surroundings. If you're from the Middle East or North Africa, settling into university life overseas often means building a new social circle from scratch. Here's how to do that without feeling out of place.
Why Friendships Abroad Make a Difference
_ You’ll improve your communication and language skills.
_ It becomes easier to adapt to your new routine.
_ You'll meet people who may help you later in life professionally or personally.
1. Start with Other International Students
Plenty of students feel out of place at the start. You’re not alone.
_ Join the international orientation events.
_ Get into WhatsApp or Telegram groups made for new students.
_ Visit your university's student office—ask about international meetups
Bonus: Many campuses have Arab groups—worth checking out early.
2. Join a Club That Actually Interests You
Most universities offer a long list of clubs and societies. Take advantage of that.
_ Pick ones that match what you’re into—sports, tech, art or anything.
_ Try a few events before committing.
_ Don’t limit yourself to groups from your region—talk to people outside your comfort zone.
Example: If you're into programming, try a local hackathon or coding meetup.
3. Make Language Work for You
Struggling with the local language? Use it as an opportunity, not an excuse.
_ Look for language exchange partners
_ Use apps like HelloTalk or Tandem to speak with locals
_ Watch shows in the local language with subtitles
It won’t be perfect, but effort builds respect—and friendships.
4. Be the One Who Makes a Move
Friendships don't happen overnight. Take initiative.
_ Start casual conversations in class.
_ Ask someone to grab coffee or study together.
_ Message people after you meet them—don’t wait for them to text first.
Avoid: Sitting back and hoping someone approaches you.
5. Show Up to Cultural or Faith-Based Events
Your background matters—own it.
_ Go to Friday prayers or local mosques.
_ Celebrate Ramadan or Eid with other students.
_ Organise or attend cultural nights—it’s a great way to connect.
This helps people see the human side of your culture—and makes you feel seen too.
6. Volunteer or Take on Small Jobs
You don’t need to do it for the money—it’s about the connections.
_ Volunteer on or off campus.
_ Join student ambassador or open-day teams.
_ Take part-time jobs in places where students hang out.
You’ll meet people outside your degree and build soft skills in the process.
7. Use Social Media the Right Way
Online spaces can help build offline friendships—if used well.
_ Join local Facebook or Discord groups
_ Follow city-based student event pages on Instagram
_ Try Meetup.com for interest-based gatherings
Safety tip: Always meet in public places when connecting with people online.
Final Words
Making friends in a new country isn’t easy, especially if you come from a very different background. But it’s doable if you take the first step, stay consistent, and remain open-minded. You’ll find your people in time. Just don’t isolate yourself.
